😔 You’re feeling down and others are saying things to try and make you feel better, but listening to those things just aren’t helping or make you feel worse❓
Or…Your friend is stressed about something and you want to cheer them up, but it seems like you’re not helping❓
Today, NEXKY will help you list out some ❌ phrases to AVOID ❌ and why sometimes they might do more harm than good!
1. “Good vibes only.”
Being stressed or depressed is not about having the wrong mentality. If you say “good vibes only,” it might show that you’re ignoring your friend’s situation and telling them to just change their mood as if it is easy and doable.
2. “Cheer up.”
Saying this might convey the meaning that they have to fight this battle alone. It is also the phrase people would just say to end the conversation quickly.
3. “I completely understand you.”
No one could ever experience the same exact things that others have. We all have different paths we have walked on and will walk on. Even though it might sound nice to say, this could lead to comparison and worsen your friend’s mentality.
4. “This happened to me before too.”
Again, no one could experience the same things. Saying this is shifting the spotlight onto yourself! You’re not actually being a good listener. The conversation will slowly be filled with YOUR story. Your friend will feel like their stories are not being heard and feel lonely.
5. “It’s not a big deal. You’ll get over it.”
Your small problems might be ‘big’ for others and vice versa! You have no right to judge whether others’ problems are trivial. Additionally, mental health is not something that time could heal. Saying “you’ll get over it” is another way to end the conversation quickly and your friend will be left alone with their thoughts.
6. “It could be worse.”
This phrase will make you an indifferent person. You are disregarding your friend’s situation as insignificant, even when your friend is feeling the complete opposite. It will also make your friend feel bad for feeling like so.
7. “Other people have it worse.”
Again, you’re comparing your friend to others and say that they should be lucky they are in this situation because it is not that bad.
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❗️NEXKY knows that these phrases might sound nice and you didn’t mean it in a bad way. However, different people react differently to different phrases.
💖 These are just examples. It is better to ASK how you can help or simply actively LISTEN to them.
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Anyone taking midterms right now? Raise up your hand! 🙋🏻💥
Today, NEXKY has combined all the keyboard shortcuts for Microsoft Word for you all! 🔥Taking midterm exams has never been easier, and these shortcuts will definitely benefit you all! 💻🌟 What are the shortcuts? Let’s check them out❗️
📌 For Windows PC
Ctrl + [ : Decreases selected text by one unit
Ctrl + ] : Increases selected text by one unit
Ctrl + E : Aligns the selected text to the center
Ctrl + L : Aligns the selected text to the left
Ctrl + R : Aligns the selected text to the right
Ctrl + End : Moves the cursor to the end of the document
Ctrl + = : Sets selected text as subscript
Ctrl + S : Saves the document
Ctrl + N : Opens new blank document
Ctrl + Enter : Adds a page break
Ctrl + F10 : Maximizes the document
Ctrl + F4 : Closes the active tab or window
Ctrl + Shift + G : Opens the word count dialog box
Ctrl + Shift + + : Sets selected text as superscript
Ctrl + Shift + D : Adds double underline to the selected text
Alt + Shift + F7 : Opens Dictionary on MW
Alt + Ctrl + I : Displays Print Preview
Alt + Shift + O : Inserts Table
📌For Mac
Command + [ : Decreases selected text by one unit
Command + ] : Increases selected text by one unit
Command + E : Aligns the selected text to the center
Command + L : Aligns the selected text to the left
Command + R : Aligns the selected text to the right
Command + = : Sets selected text as subscript
Command + S : Saves the document
Command + N : Opens new blank document
Command + Enter : Adds a page break
Command + F10 : Maximizes the document
Command + F4 : Closes the active tab or window
Command + Shift + + : Sets selected text as superscript
Command + Shift + L : Inserts to the front
Command + Shift + O : Goes to the latest opened document
Option + Command + L : Shows/Hides Inspector window
🌟Don’t forget to try them out! If you can’t memorize them all, just save this image! NEXKY guarantees that this semester’s midterm exam will be much easier and you’ll score well! 📈👍🏻